It's easier on the well being to assume good intent even when faced with near-choking negativity. When we are wronged, whether intentionally or not, I find that those who remain their happy, boisterous selves are those who assume good intent.
They say: " Oh, what she did was terrible, but she was just having a hard time with some issues which can make even the sanest person crazy. I do wish that things get better for her" I find that such people let go very easily, do not waste energy being passively or actively aggressive and are truly happy people. I'm learning to always assume good intent even when very obvious malicious acts have been done. Not because I want to be a good person, but because I love myself too much to make myself unhappy over such matters.
So, every time I'm faced with unpleasantness I'm going to choose what seeds to
sow so I can reap a harvest of flowers like on my pleated midi skirt! A harvest of roses, lavenders and sunflower or are they marigolds? Lol!
Bellini shoes / DIY skirt /